Growing Up Online
We live in an ever changing world of technology, social media, apps and gaming. It is very hard to keep up with the fast pace of this every changing world but it is important that we are aware of esaftey.
Parents E-safety tip: Always supervise your child when they are using the web.
Has something happened online that has made your child feel worried or unsafe? Make a report to one of CEOP’s Child Protection Advisors. Or, if you have been a victim of online abuse or you’re worried about somebody else, let us know securely.
https://ceop.police.uk/safety-centre/
Useful Websites for Parents
- www.parentinfo.org/ – This website was developed out of a partnership between CEOP and The Parent Zone and contains lots of good eSafety advice.
- www.saferinternet.org.uk – Here you will find e-safety tips, advice and resources to help children and young people stay safe on the internet.
- www.childnet.com– An organisation working directly with children, parents and teachers to ensure that the issues of online child protection and the safe and positive use of the internet are addressed.
- www.thinkuknow.co.uk – The Child Exploitation and Online Protection (CEOP) Centre has set up its own website which has been designed and written specifically for children, young people, teachers, parents and carers.
- www.kidsmart.org.uk/ – Kidsmart is an award winning internet safety website for parents and those working with children. It has been developed by the children’s internet charity Childnet International and has excellent information on many of the technologies used by children, with guidance on how to ‘stay safe’ online.
- www.bullying.co.uk – One in five young people have experienced bullying by text message or via email. This web site gives advice for children and parents on cyberbullying.
- www.internetmatters.org / – Specific help on how to set up internet controls at home. Guidance and articles for parents about keeping children safe online.
- www.digizen.org – A website designed to strengthen awareness and understanding of what digital citizenship is. It encourages users of technology to be and become responsible DIGItal citiZENS.
- https://help.instagram.com/369001149843369/ – Instagram has a help page to ensure that your security is maintained as far as possible. Just remember that this is a 13+ service and all photos uploaded immediately become the property of Instagram.
Under 5s checklist
SET some boundaries now – it’s never too early to do things. Set limits for the amount of time they can spend on the computer.
KEEP devices like your mobile out of reach and make sure you have passwords/PINs set up on them for the times you might lend them to your child…or for when they simply get hold of them themselves!
CHECK the age ratings and descriptions on apps, games, online TV and films before downloading them and allowing your son or daughter to play with or watch them. They are age rated to help keep them safe!
EXPLAIN your technology rules to grandparents, babysitters etc so that they also stick to them when they’re looking after your child.
REMEMBER that public Wi-Fi (e.g. in cafes) might not have Parental Controls on it – so, if you hand over your iPad to your child while you’re having a coffee, they might be able to access more than you bargained for!
SET the homepage on your family computer or tablet to an appropriate website like Cbeebies
6-9 checklist
CREATE a user account for your child on the family computer with appropriate settings and make the most of Parental Controls and tools like Google SafeSearch.
AGREE a list of websites they’re allowed to visit and the kind of personal information they shouldn’t reveal about themselves online (like the name of their school or their home address)
DECIDE time limits for things like using the internet and playing on games consoles.
KEEP in mind what older siblings might be showing them on the internet, mobiles, games consoles and other devices and agree some rules as a whole family.
TALK to other parents about their views on things like what age to buy kids a mobile and don’t be pressured by your child into letting them use certain technologies if you don’t think they’re old enough or mature enough…no matter how much they pester you.
FAMILIARISE yourself with age ratings and descriptions on games, online TV, films and apps, so that you can be sure your child is only accessing age-appropriate content – this is a good website:
10-12 checklist
MAKE sure you’ve set some tech boundaries before they get their first mobile or games console – once they have it in their hands, it can be more difficult to change the way they use it.
REMIND your child to keep phones and other devices well hidden when they’re out and about to minimise the risk of theft.
TALK to them about what they post and share online – written comments, photos and videos all form part of their ‘digital footprint’ and could be seen by anyone and available on the Web forever.
DISCUSS the kind of things they see online – this is the age when they might be looking for information about their changing bodies and exploring relationships, for example.
HOLD the line on letting your son or daughter sign up for services like Facebook and YouTube that have a minimum age limit of 13 – or WhatsApp which has a minimum age limit of 16! Talk to other parents and their school to make sure everyone is on the same page.
REMIND them that they shouldn’t do anything online that they wouldn’t do face-to-face –WHAT GOES ONLINE STAYS ONLINE!
Children: Before you get going with these sites please read these points regarding online safety.
- Do Not give out your real name
- Do Not give out your address or telephone number
- Do Not give out your photograph
- Do Not give out your school name
- Do Not give out your email address or any passwords